What are the things that one absolutly needs for a new baby? And I do mean need. I have seen some folks go out and get all those little decorated basinets and frilly clothes..and lots of other stuff I don't even know what it is but I suspect is mostly for show. Anyway I figure a lot of you moms out there should know by now what is really necessary. I know several of you have more than one child. So what do you consider really necessary?